Previously, the expiration caused QUIC connection finalization even if
there are application-terminated streams finishing sending data.  Such
finalization terminated these streams.

An easy way to trigger this is to request a large file from HTTP/3 over
a small MTU.  In this case keepalive timeout expiration may abruptly
terminate the request stream.

Now the session object is assigned to c->data while ngx_http_connection_t
object is referenced by its http_connection field, similar to
ngx_http_v2_connection_t and ngx_http_request_t.

The change allows to eliminate v3_session field from ngx_http_connection_t.
The field was under NGX_HTTP_V3 macro, which was a source of binary
compatibility problems when nginx/module is build with/without HTTP/3 support.

Postponing is essential since c->data should retain the reference to
ngx_http_connection_t object throughout QUIC handshake, because SSL callbacks
ngx_http_ssl_servername() and ngx_http_ssl_alpn_select() rely on this.

A QUIC connection is not usable yet at this early stage of spin up.

Now "listen" directve has a new "quic" parameter which enables QUIC protocol
for the address.  Further, to enable HTTP/3, a new directive "http3" is
introduced.  The hq-interop protocol is enabled by "http3_hq" as before.
Now application protocol is chosen by ALPN.

Previously used "http3" parameter of "listen" is deprecated.

It's called after handshake completion or prior to the first early data stream
creation.  The callback should initialize application-level data before
creating streams.

HTTP/3 callback implementation sets keepalive timer and sends SETTINGS.

Also, this allows to limit max handshake time in ngx_http_v3_init_stream().

All these events are created in context of a client connection and are deleted
when the connection is closed.  Setting ev->cancelable could trigger premature
connection closure and a socket leak alert.

The change removes hq-specific request handler.  Now hq requests are handled
by the HTTP/3 request handler.

Sending the instruction is delayed until the end of the current event cycle.
Delaying the instruction is allowed by quic-qpack-21, section 2.2.2.3.
The goal is to reduce the amount of data sent back to client by accumulating
several inserts in one instruction and sometimes not sending the instruction at
all, if Section Acknowledgement was sent just before it.

Operations like ngx_quic_open_stream(), ngx_http_quic_get_connection(),
ngx_http_v3_finalize_connection(), ngx_http_v3_shutdown_connection() used to
receive a QUIC stream connection.  Now they can receive the main QUIC
connection as well.  This is useful when calling them from a stream context.