Previously ngx_quic_compat_create_record() could try to encrypt a TLS
record even if encryption context was missing, which resulted in a NULL
pointer dereference.

The context is created by ngx_quic_compat_set_encryption_secret() called
from the OpenSSL keylog callback.  If an error occurred in that function,
the context could remain missing.  This could happen under memory pressure,
if an allocation failed inside this function.

The fix is to handle errors from ngx_quic_compat_set_encryption_secret()
and set qc->error to trigger an error after SSL_do_handshake() return.
Also, a check for context is added to ngx_quic_compat_create_record()
to avoid other similar issues.

Previously, it was possible to obtain a stateless reset token for a
connection by routing its packet to a wrong worker.  This allowed to
terminate the connection.

The fix is to bind stateless reset token to the worker number.

It uses a bloom filter to limit sending Stateless Reset packets no more
than once per second in average for the given address.  This allows to
address resource asymmetry from precomputed packets, as well as to limit
potential Stateless Reset exchange.

Now it accepts an optional salt, to be used in a subsequent change.

Made sure to send packets smaller than the triggering packet,
following RFC 9000, Section 10.3.3.

Reported-by: cyberspace61

Now to be valid, it also assumes the Connection ID we require from a client.

In rare cases, it was possible to get into this error state on reload
with improperly updated file timestamps for certificate and key pairs.

The fix is to retry on X509_R_KEY_VALUES_MISMATCH, similar to 5d5d9adcc.
Additionally, loading SSL certificate is updated to avoid certificates
discarded on retry to appear in ssl->certs and in extra chain.

The kevent udata field was changed from intptr_t to "void *",
similar to other BSDs and Darwin.

The NGX_KQUEUE_UDATA_T macro is adjusted to reflect that change,
fixing -Werror=int-conversion errors.

The NGX_KQUEUE_UDATA_T macro is used to compensate the incompatible
kqueue() API in NetBSD, it doesn't really belong to feature tests.

The change limits the macro visibility to the kqueue event module.
Moving from autotests also simplifies testing a particular NetBSD
version as seen in a subsequent change.