Similarly to the problem fixed in 2096b21fcd10 (ticket #1792),
when a "trailer only" gRPC response (that is, a response with the
END_STREAM flag in the HEADERS frame) was immediately followed by
RST_STREAM(NO_ERROR) in the data preread along with the response
header, RST_STREAM wasn't properly skipped and caused "upstream
rejected request with error 0" errors.
Observed with "unknown service" gRPC errors returned by grpc-go.

Fix is to set ctx->done if we are going to parse additional data,
so the RST_STREAM(NO_ERROR) is properly skipped.  Additionally, now
ngx_http_grpc_filter() will complain about frames sent for closed
stream if there are any.

When installing or running from a non-root user it is sometimes required to
override default, compiled in error log path. There was no way to do this
without rebuilding the binary (ticket #147).

This patch introduced "-e" command line option which allows one to override
compiled in error log path.

Addon modules, both dynamic and static, can now use shared source files.
Shared sources result in only one make rule even if specified several
times in different modules.

Before introduction of request body filter in 42d9beeb22db, the only
possible return code from the ngx_http_request_body_filter() call
without actual buffers was NGX_HTTP_INTERNAL_SERVER_ERROR, and
the code in ngx_http_read_client_request_body() hardcoded the only
possible error to simplify the code of initial call to set rb->rest.

This is no longer true after introduction of request body filters though,
as a request body filter might need to return other errors, such as 403.
Fix is to preserve the error code actually returned by the call
instead of assuming 500.

Added logging before returning NGX_HTTP_INTERNAL_SERVER_ERROR if there
are busy buffers after a request body flush.  This should never happen
with current code, though bugs can be introduced by 3rd party modules.
Make sure debugging will be easy enough.

When doing lingering close, the socket was first shut down for writing,
so SSL shutdown initiated after lingering close was not able to send
the close_notify alerts (ticket #2056).

The fix is to call ngx_ssl_shutdown() before shutting down the socket.